Hey everybody! Is it me, or does it seems like nothing is clear anymore? Everything is shades of grey: movies, our weather all week, politics, you name it. Life feels like it’s between Shades of Grey headed towards Hazy Shade of Winter. And even when I believe I’m finding clarity, it only takes a moment for that 20/20 focus to become blurred lines everywhere.
I’m one of those folks that can deal with even bad news, better than uncertainty. Health issues, money problems…whatever life presents that day: I hate guessing how things are, or wondering what is the diagnosis, or not knowing for sure how much money is in the bank. That crap drives me cuckoo crazy.
Love and relationships are two of those things that can take us to even murkier waters. All it takes is one heart misunderstanding where they stand with the other. Sometimes in our lives, we have friends or lovers that take us to new heights. They allow us the joy of love and passion, assuming that together, anything be conquered…only to end in horror as words are spoken, that forever change the course of our lives. Words and deeds and memories of the cloud nines and the pits of hell: that leave precious memories, scars, and life lessons we wouldn’t wish on our worst enemy.
We must always focus on today’s journey. We must always remember that even if today isn’t a good day, it doesn’t determine the rest of our lives. Matters of faith and heart make the difference in the long run. That’s why we MUST focus on the race that us set before us. We cannot afford to wish every day was just over, or that things wouldn’t change. Change is constant and uncomfortable, but necessary. And change is going to occur, whether we want it to or not. Why I’d venture to say despising change will eventually change you too…more bitter, more resentful, and more unforgiving. It’s something to consider.
I was listening to some music on Spotify two or three years ago. And I remember doing a search for songs with the word “clear” in the title. I discovered “The Clearness is Gone” by the Avett Brothers. What a song. It paints mostly imagery with its lyrics. The words are descriptive enough to stir all kinds of emotions within my soul. But, the way they tell the story, it allows the listener to see their own story and interpretation. I dearly love this song. I hope you’ll look it up, and give it a try.
Well, hang in there my dear friends. If y’all are looking for something to do this weekend, we’re playing at the Frayed Knot in Chapin on Friday night. We’d love to see you! Take care everyone. Love to all.
